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Shedding the Savior Complex

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  Shedding the Savior Complex https://www.spreaker.com/episode/shedding-the-savior-complex--70850463 Are you carrying a load that doesn't belong to you, calling it "community service"? Today we are sitting in the deep blue energy of Ujima—Collective Work and Responsibility. But here on the porch, we’re flipping the script on what that actually means. Too many of us are walking around exhausted, burning ourselves out trying to be the savior for folks who won't even lift a finger to save themselves. We wrap this exhaustion in the noble cloth of "collective responsibility," but deep down, it’s just guilt and trauma disguised as love. What happens when you realize that true collective work requires you to stop carrying the whole load? What happens when the best thing you can do for your community is to let go of the people pulling you down? In today's session, we talk about why stepping back is the most powerful move you can make. Call to Inaction: To hold ...

Curse of Fortuna part 1- short fictional tale

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My father was a different type of dude. He often referred to stories to teach me important life lessons, many of them I didn't understand until after he passed away. This story is one of those, and has proven to be the best so far. On my 18th birthday my father did not show up for my birthday party, but instead asked me to meet him at a coffee shop the day after. Being upset about him missing another major event in my life I showed up with an attitude. When I entered the coffee shop he was sitting at a table alone drinking and reading a book. I approached the table and took a seat, but he didn't immediately notice me. I sat quietly brooding, planning my verbal assault on this man that I felt never really paid any attention to me. Finally looking up at me, and smiling. " I'm glad you came, happy belated birthday." He said reaching his hand out in a gesture of peace. I shook his hand and for some reason my anger subsided, and he began to giggle. "Your 18 y...

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