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Are You Thirsty or Just Dependent?

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  Are You Thirsty or Just Dependent? https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-well-of-faith--71634703 There is a difference between needing a drink and needing a master. Many of us have been taught that success is found in the charity of others—in the "diversity" of someone else's table or the "funding" of someone else's bank. But the Ancestors warn us: water that is begged for never truly quenches the thirst. We are wrapping up the week of Kujichagulia (Self-Determination) with a hard look at Imani (Faith) . If fear is a ghost, why are we letting it dictate our reality? We explore the tension between the comfort of the "begged cup" and the grueling, sacred work of digging your own well. Call to Inaction: Stop looking for a fountain in someone else's yard. "He who waits for another to feed him will always be hungry." What request for "permission" can you stop making today? Which "safety net" is actually a spider web ke...

Final Goodbye II- Running from grief

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Today Pepa died/ Should I be happy for him/ or sad for my lost?/ Thursday morning June 28, 2012 9:08am: Sitting at my desk preparing for the day. It is going to be busy with all of the Yoking classes I have this afternoon so I decided to get busy on this back log of paperwork sitting on my desk. While sitting there I decided to complete my podcast of the "6th tool". Phone rings, and I look at caller ID, and feeling of dread hits me. It is my mother calling, and I'm hoping that she does not have bad news to report about my grandfather: ha2tim: "What's up? Mother: "where you at?" ha2tim: " I'm at the office, why what's up?" Mother: Well I was looking for your wife, I called and she didn't pickup." ha2tim:" Well you know she never answer the phone." We laugh.... Mother: " Well I wanted to go by and pickup Gina (my youngest daughter), cause you know she tickles daddy." I get qui...