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Primary Programmer

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Primary Programmer   https://www.spreaker.com/episode/primary-programmer--71129602 Are you living a life you designed, or are you just a character in someone else’s dream? We often confuse the "trunk" for the "elephant." We focus on the outward noise—the bills, the titles, the labels society slaps on our chests—and we forget that we are the ones who hold the source code. The tension today lies between the comfort of being defined and the terrifying freedom of defining yourself. Most stay in the "huts" of external validation because the "pyramid" of self-determination requires a sacrifice of the old self. Who told you that you were "just" anything? Call to Inaction: Stop trying to be understood by those who haven't done the work to understand themselves. "What does not strengthen should be released, for it is a false treasure." What title or label can you stop carrying today? Which "Legacy Program" (habit or thoug...

Final Goodbye II- Running from grief

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Today Pepa died/ Should I be happy for him/ or sad for my lost?/ Thursday morning June 28, 2012 9:08am: Sitting at my desk preparing for the day. It is going to be busy with all of the Yoking classes I have this afternoon so I decided to get busy on this back log of paperwork sitting on my desk. While sitting there I decided to complete my podcast of the "6th tool". Phone rings, and I look at caller ID, and feeling of dread hits me. It is my mother calling, and I'm hoping that she does not have bad news to report about my grandfather: ha2tim: "What's up? Mother: "where you at?" ha2tim: " I'm at the office, why what's up?" Mother: Well I was looking for your wife, I called and she didn't pickup." ha2tim:" Well you know she never answer the phone." We laugh.... Mother: " Well I wanted to go by and pickup Gina (my youngest daughter), cause you know she tickles daddy." I get qui...