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The Art of Subtraction: Why Your Hustle is Keeping You Trapped

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The Art of Subtraction: Why Your Hustle is Keeping You Trapped The system has lied to you. It told you that building a legacy requires carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. It taught you to stack stress, collect obligations, and wear your exhaustion like a badge of honor. But the Ancestors didn't design us to be pack mules for a broken matrix. Today, we step firmly into the brilliant, vibrant portal of Kuumba (Creativity) , vibrating at the high-texture frequency of Orange . And the first rule of true manifestation is this: Liberation is a subtractive journey. The Xhosa proverb warns us: Kuhlangene isanga nenkohla —the wonderful and the impossible have come into collision. When you allow yourself to stay trapped in the low-vibrational loops of being Mad, Sad, or Scared , you are playing by their rules. The system feeds on your blame, shame, and guilt. It turns every obstacle into an unyielding concrete wall. But an artist doesn’t war with the wall; an artist sees a ca...

Final Goodbye II- Running from grief

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Today Pepa died/ Should I be happy for him/ or sad for my lost?/ Thursday morning June 28, 2012 9:08am: Sitting at my desk preparing for the day. It is going to be busy with all of the Yoking classes I have this afternoon so I decided to get busy on this back log of paperwork sitting on my desk. While sitting there I decided to complete my podcast of the "6th tool". Phone rings, and I look at caller ID, and feeling of dread hits me. It is my mother calling, and I'm hoping that she does not have bad news to report about my grandfather: ha2tim: "What's up? Mother: "where you at?" ha2tim: " I'm at the office, why what's up?" Mother: Well I was looking for your wife, I called and she didn't pickup." ha2tim:" Well you know she never answer the phone." We laugh.... Mother: " Well I wanted to go by and pickup Gina (my youngest daughter), cause you know she tickles daddy." I get qui...