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Ujima vs. The Savior Complex: Why Your "Help" is Killing the Collective

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  Ujima vs. The Savior Complex: Why Your "Help" is Killing the Collective https://www.spreaker.com/episode/shedding-the-savior-complex-the-true-power-of-ujima--70563589 You’re tired because you’re carrying stones that don't belong to you. When we hear the word Ujima—Collective Work and Responsibility—most of us instantly feel a heavy weight on our shoulders. We think about the family members we have to rescue, the friends we have to carry, and the community trauma we are expected to fix. We've built an entire culture around the "Savior Complex," confusing shared struggle with shared building. But what if you've been practicing Ujima completely wrong? What if true collective work requires you to stop helping certain people? In today's episode of Tha Daily Spark, we are taking a blade to the false narratives holding our community back. We’re talking about the painful but necessary art of dropping the dead weight so you can finally find your true Tribe...

Late Night Hookah

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First, before I get into my post, I want to send shots out to my youngest daughter who made it to the world on December 27 2012 at exactly 6:14... so from this day she will be Known as Ms.614.. I don't believe in coincidence so ms.614 or Sasha confirms that I am where I supposed to be and doing what I am doing. Some may wonder why I promote using the Internet to it's fullest.  I suggest that everyone gets a blog, twitter, face book, spreaker, g+ and what ever us is out there. "My reasons are personal" (in my Vito Corleone voice)... Legacy ladies and gents. We are living in the most dynamic time in human history, and each of us have the ability to through our voice, writing, ideas, and etc. out into the world. We have been taught to stay quiet, and not share what's on our mind, but I am saying stop hiding your light. Shine for the world, for you may project the beam that may free someone. Stop worrying about those who don't agree with you or that you may not ...