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Before You Build It Up, Tear It Down: A Call to Conscious Community

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Before You Build It Up, Tear It Down: A Call to Conscious Community I was sitting still—thinking. Letting the mind wander across proverbs , ancient texts, and what's happening now. One idea kept circling back like a hawk over fresh prey: “Before something great can be built, it must first be broken down.” You’ll find echoes of this in the Tao Te Ching , in Proverbs , and in the ancestral wisdom of Africa . “If you want to kill a fool, give them a bag full of money.” That one hit me sideways the first time I heard it. It didn’t say “fight the fool” or “educate the fool”—nope. Just bless them with abundance they ain’t ready for, and the destruction will take care of itself. And I can’t help but see that playing out in real time—in our politics, in our people, in the nation. Collapse as a Setup, Not a Setback Look, I don't usually date my writings, but let’s keep it real—it’s early November, post-election season, and a whole lot is shifting. Layoffs coming, benefit...

Uncomfortable Truths: Stop Coddling and Reclaim Your Power

Uncomfortable Truths: Stop Coddling and Reclaim Your Power

Walking across a parking lot, shifting from a vehicle to the school, I couldn’t help but notice the discomfort lurking beneath our everyday interactions. Even while I was in the midst of my Ramadan fast—a practice that sharpens the mind and spirit—I felt compelled to address a deeply ingrained issue in our society: the idea that we must make everyone feel comfortable at all times.

The Comfort Conundrum

We’ve been conditioned to believe that ensuring everyone’s comfort is not just desirable but essential. However, when it comes to confronting anti-blackness and reclaiming our space, this comfort becomes a barrier rather than a bridge. Too often, we allow those who would undermine our strength to settle in too easily, softening our resolve. It’s time to shed the notion that we owe anyone an easy ride.

The Unyielding Call for Accountability

There’s a powerful message echoing from the words of John Henry Clark: we owe nothing but an ass-kicking to those who try to take advantage of us. This isn’t about being aggressive for aggression’s sake—it’s about refusing to coddle those who exploit our vulnerabilities. The truth is, when we let others feel too comfortable with our presence, they start to think they can push boundaries and take more than what is rightfully ours.

Lessons from Unlikely Alliances

Look at the unexpected partnerships forming in the world around us. Remember when Donald Trump and Elon Musk, once fierce adversaries, eventually found common ground? Their evolving relationship is a reminder that alliances are temporary and based solely on aligning interests. There are no permanent friends or enemies in this game. In order to protect and advance our own interests, sometimes we must be willing to let others squirm in discomfort, refusing to dilute our power for the sake of ease.

Redefining Our Boundaries

We must resist the urge to be overly accommodating. Our culture, our influence, and our future depend on maintaining a stance of strength—on training our young people never to let up their guard. It’s not about personal animosity but about a collective insistence on respect and self-determination. When we allow the comfort of our adversaries to dictate our behavior, we inadvertently cede the upper hand.

Embrace the Discomfort

It’s time to flip the script. Let’s challenge the status quo by refusing to soften our stance just to keep others at ease. By embracing the discomfort and demanding accountability, we not only honor our heritage but also pave the way for a future where our community stands strong and unyielding. Our legacy isn’t built on endless politeness—it’s forged in the fire of tough conversations and the resolve to reclaim what is rightfully ours.

Almost done—peace, and remember: keep your guard up, and never let comfort compromise your power.

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