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The Lone Wolf Is a Dying Breed: Assassinating the Myth of Hyper-Individualism

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The Lone Wolf Is a Dying Breed: Assassinating the Myth of Hyper-Individualism Grand rising to the Warriors, Elders, and NationBuilders. Let’s stop lying to ourselves. We are drowning in a cultural pool of toxic hyper-individualism. Modern society aggressively markets the myth of the "rugged individual"—the isolated "alpha male" who needs absolutely nobody to win. It’s a beautifully packaged lie designed to keep you exhausted, fragile, and easily broken by the storms of life. Carrying the solitary weight of "I" is a miserable, unnatural burden. Look at the media you consume: even Hollywood's fictional supervillains have an entire staff and a dedicated team to execute their vision, while they sell *us* the narrative of the lone superhero saving the day with nothing but a few gadgets. James Bond was fly, but he lived a lonely, sad, and empty existence. The truth is simple: **The "I" does not build. It is the "We" that constructs for et...

Final Goodbye II- Running from grief

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Today Pepa died/ Should I be happy for him/ or sad for my lost?/ Thursday morning June 28, 2012 9:08am: Sitting at my desk preparing for the day. It is going to be busy with all of the Yoking classes I have this afternoon so I decided to get busy on this back log of paperwork sitting on my desk. While sitting there I decided to complete my podcast of the "6th tool". Phone rings, and I look at caller ID, and feeling of dread hits me. It is my mother calling, and I'm hoping that she does not have bad news to report about my grandfather: ha2tim: "What's up? Mother: "where you at?" ha2tim: " I'm at the office, why what's up?" Mother: Well I was looking for your wife, I called and she didn't pickup." ha2tim:" Well you know she never answer the phone." We laugh.... Mother: " Well I wanted to go by and pickup Gina (my youngest daughter), cause you know she tickles daddy." I get qui...