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The Great Uncoupling: Why Umoja Requires a Machete, Not a Net

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The Great Uncoupling: Why Umoja Requires a Machete, Not a Net https://www.spreaker.com/episode/scrape-away-the-fake-the-subtractive-path-to-umoja--70540444 Family, we’ve got Umoja all wrong. We’ve been moving through life thinking that Unity means cramming more people onto our life’s lifeboat until the whole thing starts to sink. We say "yes" to every gathering, hold on to toxic kinfolk out of guilt, and exhaust ourselves trying to bridge gaps that were meant to be boundaries. But what if real connection isn't about adding more to your plate? What if the deepest sense of belonging happens only after you scrape away the people, places, and mindsets that keep you divided within yourself? On today’s episode of Tha Daily Spark, we are talking about dropping the heavy baggage of forced alliances. Call to Inaction: “A tree cannot grow healthy branches if it refuses to drop its dead leaves.” Do not go out today trying to build a new network. Do not reach out to force a connecti...
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Suffering from a case of Banzo

 The Houaiss Portuguese dictionary defines banzo as “the psychological process caused by the removal from culture that put black slaves from Africa, transported to distant lands, into an initial state of arousal followed by impulses of rage and destruction and then a deep nostalgia that induced apathy, starving and, quite often, madness or death.”


I lifted this definition from a very good article about Capoeira called "meeting notions of community, recreation and development through Capoeira", and I had to take this opportunity to blog.


Questions: this definition fits you or anyone you know?

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