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Shedding the Savior Complex

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  Shedding the Savior Complex https://www.spreaker.com/episode/shedding-the-savior-complex--70850463 Are you carrying a load that doesn't belong to you, calling it "community service"? Today we are sitting in the deep blue energy of Ujima—Collective Work and Responsibility. But here on the porch, we’re flipping the script on what that actually means. Too many of us are walking around exhausted, burning ourselves out trying to be the savior for folks who won't even lift a finger to save themselves. We wrap this exhaustion in the noble cloth of "collective responsibility," but deep down, it’s just guilt and trauma disguised as love. What happens when you realize that true collective work requires you to stop carrying the whole load? What happens when the best thing you can do for your community is to let go of the people pulling you down? In today's session, we talk about why stepping back is the most powerful move you can make. Call to Inaction: To hold ...
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How To Find Your Tribe

The first and most important step to finding your tribe is a deep, internal realization about the kind of person you are. To find your tribe, you must first understand who you are. You must understand what you want from life, what you must have to be happy, and what's most important to you. Your understanding will change over time, and that's okay. But in the beginning, it's important to have a clear idea of who you are and how you want to live your life. Next, you need to do some research on your people your tribal DNA. Who are they? What do they want? What do they need? Where can you find them? What platforms or places exist where they congregate? How can you communicate with them? Once you've done the research and answered these questions, it's time to put yourself out there. This can be scary at first - especially if this is something new for you - but don't let that stop you! Get started right away! Once you've found your tribe, the reward is worth it. You'll be helping people who need it and getting help when you need it yourself. You'll feel a sense of community far beyond anything else in your life. You'll start feeling really good about yourself.......

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