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The Fog of "How" vs. The Fire of "Why"

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The Fog of "How" vs. The Fire of "Why" Most people aren't stuck because the work is impossible. They’re stuck because they are running a mental loop of fear, sadness, and anger—drowning in blame, shame, and guilt while staring into a thick fog of logistics. You sit paralyzed asking, "How am I going to afford it? How will it work out? How do I fix this alone?" Here is the ancestral reality check: The "How" is not your primary assignment. Your "Why" is. In the Gye-Nyame self-mastery tradition, we apply via negativa —the discipline of subtraction. You don’t need another masterclass, another 10-step productivity hack, or more frantic hustle piled onto an exhausted spirit. You need to scrape off the mental buildup, the overthinking, and the illusion that you must control every single outcome before taking a step. When you align with Nia (Purpose), it blazes like the midday sun. The sun doesn't negotiate with the fog; its sheer heat d...

Gratitude & Grace on the Journey

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On this Journey it is important that we begin to show gratitude for all the blessings that we receive. This is a challenge in a world that seems to want to help you find all that is wrong in your life. Let us take a closer look at this thing gratitude and then talk about an exercise that can help you in finding those bright spots. I know that many of you may think that there are no bright spots, but trust me they are there. Through my research and even more importantly my experience I have learned that the human mind and brain are tools to be used in life. We can train them to seek out certain things in the world. If you chose to seek out things to be grateful for you will find them. Without going into the complicated science of the brain, and what we know of the mind these tools have been shaped by evolution (if you prefer God) to seek out what we want from the world. This effect is the result of us descending from hunter gatherers in the past. Hunters had to be able to read signs,...

Starting Small Habits

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"A journey of a thousand miles begin with one step", is a quote I often refer to when I feel like I am stuck. I often like to look at these words of wisdom, but sometimes I forget the power of these words. Not only does a journey of a thousand miles begin with 1 step, but so does a a short trip to the corner store. All of life's action begin with a small step. When we think about it any major change that we make in life starts with small steps or better yet by creating small habits that enable us to use the power of leverage and momentum to move us to where we want to be. My recent studies have led me to looking at quantum physics, and from looking at this amazing science, I can clearly see the power of the small. We often overlook the power of the small, bu many of us have experienced this power in our personal life, both negatively and positively. For example if you have ever experienced the bite off the cold or flu virus you know what i am talking about. This s...

The Player's Pyramid - 5th Block (Ujima) podcast

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I have decided to share an old post about Ujima to prepare for the podcast. Check it out and leave comments and ideas, here is the link: Ujima Here is the podcast: The Player's Pyramid- The 5th Block (Ujima) Join and support the Journey