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Shedding the Savior Complex

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  Shedding the Savior Complex https://www.spreaker.com/episode/shedding-the-savior-complex--70850463 Are you carrying a load that doesn't belong to you, calling it "community service"? Today we are sitting in the deep blue energy of Ujima—Collective Work and Responsibility. But here on the porch, we’re flipping the script on what that actually means. Too many of us are walking around exhausted, burning ourselves out trying to be the savior for folks who won't even lift a finger to save themselves. We wrap this exhaustion in the noble cloth of "collective responsibility," but deep down, it’s just guilt and trauma disguised as love. What happens when you realize that true collective work requires you to stop carrying the whole load? What happens when the best thing you can do for your community is to let go of the people pulling you down? In today's session, we talk about why stepping back is the most powerful move you can make. Call to Inaction: To hold ...
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How To Use Your Tribe To Motivate You When You Are Feeling Low

I'm here to give you permission to take a break. It's not that it's hard to find things to talk about—it's that sometimes we just don't feel like talking. And that's okay! Sometimes, we need to take time off from our broadcast schedule and just listen instead of speak. We can turn the mic over to someone else, or we can keep it shut off while we observe the world around us and recharge. But even taking a break, we still have a responsibility: to do what we do best. For me, that means being an observer, a listener, and an advocate for others. It means keeping my eyes open at all times so I can affirm the people I know are out there doing their part, too.

I didn't make it through this past year by pretending as though nothing was happening outside of my own little bubble—in fact, I made it by getting out there and meeting everyone else who is also braving this time in history with me and for me. And my tribe is out there inspiring me every day. So when I come back from my hiatus, I'll be ready with more stories about these incredible people who are also making their way through these dark days with everything they've got.... Get the rest of the article by Joining the email list.

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